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”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such asituation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.6] Number three is public restrooms.7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.———————————————————————————————————————————-POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow andarmpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told ourinstructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without usingmuch pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feellittle silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.——————————————————————————————————————————-FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/orpurse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may behiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
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”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…
FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.
———————————————————————————————————————————-
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
——————————————————————————————————————————-
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.
If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.
‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW
ATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.
So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this.
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I still think we should write to FOX and tell them
they should replace RIB with Stephanie and Bana.
That’s the only way we could have a great S4 of Glee… and that’s the only case I’d actually watch season4.
Just saying…
This still sucks and still needs editing and all… but I just wanted it to be here… I’m pretty sure this is going nowhere but… well, it’s here. I need a coffee.
Chapter 2
-I’m better breathing on my own-
-x-
Nick Willard was anything but nice. Everyone in town knew it and he was determined to keep it that way.
He never liked people and people didn’t like him: they thought he was weird, rude and, well, different. He thought they were anything but interesting and less than needed in his life.
Since he was a kid he had always been a loner and made sure to keep his distance from any sort of relationship, including the one with his family.
He was the youngest of three brothers and the complete opposite of his siblings. His parents moved down to South Williamsport, Pennsylvania, when he was still a toddler, but since his earliest days, it was evident to everyone that Nick didn’t like attention.
Growing up he got a lot less shy and more closed off: his mother was probably the only person that had the power to crack his wall and see the real Nick somehow.
But that was never enough to help him trust the world outside and give it a chance.
She spent endless night holding him when he was still a child, talking to him, trying to understand what scared him so much that he felt like he had to keep the entire world at distance, asking him why he didn’t want to get to know his schoolmates. But every single time all she got in response was a deep sigh and a long tortured silence.
It broke her heart to know that one day his attitude and his cold acting would have turned against him, but as much as she tried, that was just who he was and there was no way to change him.
Out of her three boys he had always proved to be the most difficult one. And somewhere along the line she realized that he was not scared of people, neither was he cruel nor a soon-to-be criminal, as all his teachers seemed to think. He just wanted to be on his own.
But as he got older, everyone noticed how his attitude went from simply distant to cold and hard. And all Anna Willard could do was sit and watch as her baby boy slowly turned into this closed young man, and she was never able to prevent him from drawing that invisible line that ultimately broke them apart.
Walking towards his apartment, Nick buried his hands deep into the pocket of his worn jeans, trying to avoid the bitter wind blowing persistently on his face.
I’m assuming the London Olympics will have Quidditch
ahahahha, geniale!
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Posting this here so y’all can be jealous. This dude is my co-worker.
Meanwhile, Chani is unemployed and if I were, I highly doubt anyone of my co-workers would achieve this.
Mission Accomplished, Tate. Mission Accomplished.
Hahaha. I was the artistic director for a university magazine photoshoot that we had to do. I got to pick his clothes (aka make him try on everything in his closet and watch him change clothes—boy is fine.) LOL. He’s like a brother to me, tho.
The bolded. I refuse to believe it. REFUSE!! Hop on thou trousers, I request. Hope on thou!!
che gnocco!
I don’t know where this came from and IT NEEDS a Beta but…
I started writing it ages ago… My first and only attempt to write a story in English… It probably sucks but… I just thought I’d share it on my Tumblr too…
FIND A WAY
Chapter One: Looking for that something
She knew it was a mistake. She was slightly aware of the fact that lifting her eyes and following her instinct was going to change her life, and not in a good way.
She could feel in the back of her stomach that giving in and searching for a face that matched that voice would soon, somehow, become the stupidest thing she had ever done. Because she had heard stories about that mellifluous voice. She had never cared that much about its owner: sure, she knew who he was, but, honestly, they had never officially met or spared each other a second glance. But today she was intrigued by his voice, by the urban legends that ran around about him, by the intensity of his tone, by his smell that was sneaking inside her nostrils and spreading through her blood like poison.
I'll make space for your rage: The thing that pisses me off about Rachel Berry?
(not Rachel-friendly, fair warning)
This whole storyline is so frustrating. In real life, if you fuck up; you move on. I’ve done it. I have failed auditions and job applications all the time. What I DON’T do after not getting a job that I really need is call…
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257 ♫BabyChord&Ms.Pretty♫: Ryan Murphy...this lying ass motherfucking stupid ass bitch.
I can’t with him.
You wanna do right by the characters? What’s that mean? That they all get to duet with Rachel? That they all get to be in scenes with Lea? Because that’s the only we we know for certain that they’d get screentime. “Props” proved that. The only time Jenna got more than 1 or 2…
I’m not tired of Rachel or do I think that she and/or Lea should be on the recieving end of hate from fans for doing her job.
I understand the frustration but season 2 it certainly wasn’t all Rachel neither was the first half of this season. Geez NYADA is the first real story arc she has gotten that wasn’t linked to just being a girlfriend. Since the end of season 1.
Anyway I get your frustration but plus stop transferring onto Lea.
Why not onto Dave or Becky or the Sebastien who are all bit players who got more time than some regulars. Or how about on too Santana who got tripled the amount of time and songs she got the year before. She stole more time/spotlight from Mercedes than anyone.
Yes you are putting most of your anger toward Ryan but don’t say everyone is over Rachel cause that isn’t true.
Dave, Becky, or Sebastian? I’m sorry, no. They’ve all been featured on every other episode, so your argument is all kinds of misinformed. And even though Santana hi-jacked Mercedes’ storyline a lot THIS SEASON, Mercedes has been standing in Rachel’s shadow for far longer. And they’ve acknowledged, multiple times, that this is the case. But they’ve made no effort to change it. Despite how “limited” of Rachel that we’ve seen this season, we still know more about her life than any of the other graduating Seniors. You can’t tell me that’s fair, because it’s not. And I’m sorry I generalized, but MANY people are tired of Rachel. And I, in no way, attacked Lea as an actress. I said that the only way someone can seem to have a significant storyline, is if they have a plotline involving Rachel or a duet with Lea. If you took that as an attack on Lea Michele, then so be it. But I’m not going to pretend like I take back anything I’ve said above, and if you believe I will, you’re sadly mistaken.
This: so true it’s not even funny. And I can only speak for myself but I’m more then tired to see avery freaking episode revolving around Rachel. It’s Glee, not “Rachel’s creek”… It’s supposed to be about all the kids in Glee Club… and lately it’s just about anything related to Rachel with the Glee kids standing in the back ground of her storylines… so yeah… I’ve had enought Rachel to last me for a lifetime… and if you are someone like me, who is not that interested in that specific character, Glee lately became the most boring show ever.
8 I-Am Tell. No. One.: What should have happened: Episode 3x20
“Oh come on, guys!” he called as a red-faced Kurt and snickering Artie moved down the hallway. “It’s funny!”
Brittany smiled and then took off after the departing boys as Mercedes laughed at Sam’s predicament. He leaned against the wall, his lips pursed in a pout and she couldn’t help but…
Baby, you are always the best… Can you please take over RIB??? Please??????
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